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sjford0419
11-10-2008, 05:24 PM
I know that tomorrow is Veteran's Day, but I wanted to post this to also salute the wives of Veterans!

Happy Veteran's Day to all veterans and my fellow military wives!!

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I would like to recognize these often underestimated, unseen, and
unheard heroes.

This is for the young women that are waking up at 6 a.m. every
morning, laying out clothes and packing three lunches for those
small precious children that they have been left alone to care for.

This is for the pregnant Military wife wondering if her husband will
make it home in time to watch their miracle happen.

This is for the childless Military wife, living in a town or on a
base alone where she is a complete stranger to her surroundings.

This is for the women that feel like a third leg when they go out
with their friends and their husbands.

This is for the Military wife that canceled all her plans to wait by
the phone, and even though the phone broke up and cut off every time
you spoke to him you waited anyway.

This is a pledge to the women that cry themselves to sleep in an
empty bed.

This is to recognize the woman that felt like she was dying inside
when he said he had to go, but smiled for him anyway.

This is for those of you that are faithfully in that long line at
the post office once a month, handling 2 large boxes and 2 small
children like a pro.

This is for that woman that decided to remodel the house to pass
time, and then realized that she had no idea what she was doing and
sighed and wished she had a little help.

This is for all the lonely nights, all the one-person dinners, and
all of the wondering thoughts because you haven't heard from him in
days.

This is for the sad Military wives, the angry Military wives,and the
strong Military wives.

A toast to you for falling apart, and putting yourselves back
together. Because a pay check isn't enough, a body pillow in your
bed is no consolation, and a web cam can never compare.

This is for all of you no matter how easy or hard this was for you.
Our Marines are brave, they are heroes, but so are we.

So the next time someone tells you that they would never marry a
Military guy, don't bother explaining to them that you can't control
who you fall in love with. Just think of this and nod your head, know
that you are the stronger woman.

Hold your heads up high, hang that flag in your front yard, stick
100 magnets on your car, and then give yourself a pat on the back.

Be proud to be the woman that you are, be proud to be a Military wife

LenaGardner
11-10-2008, 05:35 PM
sam,that's beautiful!

sjford0419
11-10-2008, 05:45 PM
I just realized that people might think I wrote this, I actually got this out of a military newspaper last year. I thought it was just so appropriate for the military wife!!

Mandy
11-10-2008, 05:47 PM
I have done just about every one of those (except the childless one) and I have to count my blessings that he's home for the moment.
I hate the hurt and pain of seperation but its all worth it.

junebug
11-10-2008, 05:55 PM
this made me cry. and i'm no longer an army wife. but those feelings are still there, under the surface. i experienced all of these as well. it was hard, but i was so proud. and i still feel kind of like an outsider even now that he's out. you gain a sort of friendship with other military wives that just doesn't often compare to non-military friends, IMO. I can remember one time when DH was in Iraq back in '03, after watching Fox news (too much lol) and just freaking out at something i heard. I called my FRG leader and she told me to come over. It was about 10 o'clock at night, but she didnt mind. we talked and cried on each other's shoulders. i'll never forget that. So to all you who are still military wives, i continue to salute you too. (((Hugs)))

LenaGardner
11-10-2008, 05:55 PM
I just realized that people might think I wrote this, I actually got this out of a military newspaper last year. I thought it was just so appropriate for the military wife!!

oh, I figured you didn't write it...but it's still beautiful! :D

Sharon Kay
11-10-2008, 05:58 PM
Here here!! I so appreciate all those wonderful women too!

sjford0419
11-10-2008, 06:01 PM
The first time my husband when to Iraq (Jan. 03) my oldest was 20 months old and I had a 5 week old baby. Not only that, we had only been at our duty station for 6 months and I got the keys to our base housing on the DAY HE LEFT!! So I had to move alone with two kids to a strange place! It was such a lonely time for me! Luckily, the other wives and I bonded and I STILL have friends that I speak to that I met during that time.

pbumbaca
11-10-2008, 06:09 PM
Man that made me cry and I'm not even a Military Wife!

Happy Veteran's day to all the wives and the wonderful men that keep us safe! Thank you all for your service!

AnnieBananie
11-10-2008, 06:21 PM
I cried too and I'm not a military wife either... though I have close friends who are. Beautiful, y'all deserve recognition too!

my4boys
11-10-2008, 07:31 PM
Just beautiful.....I am a Military Aunt but that does not compare one bit to what you beautiful women go through on a daily basis. I am proud to know each and every one of you and what your husbands, sons, daughters are doing to keep this country safe.

Thoughts & Prayers on this Veteran's Day

DawnMarch
11-10-2008, 07:41 PM
I have so much respect for military wives. On those occasions here and there when my husband is out of town and I have to handle everything here for a few days, I try to think of my friends here whose husbands are gone for months and months at a time. I don't know how you ladies do it -- I think you are amazing!

scarletsierra
11-10-2008, 07:43 PM
Awww, that's beautiful Sam! Makes me emotional...It really captures so many of the feelings I have felt. That's something I have noticed about the military community and military spouses...at some point we've either been there, are there, or are going to where each other have been.

Thanks for sharing!!