ugh..my MIL is coming today..

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nikkiARNGwife

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to "help"...what she doesn't get is that her coming only stresses me out..it doesn't help. And the worst part?...she's spending the night!! Because she thinks that when the baby is born that she's going to keep Avery here so she wants to "practice" :cursing: but that's not my plan at all..he's going to stay at my parents' house with them...he's just not around MIL as much..he's much more used to staying with my parents and I just feel more comfortable with leaving him with them. He's going to have enough adjusting to go through with DH home and baby being born. I don't want him upset b/c he's left with someone he's not used to kwim?

And get this..when she called to tell me she was coming (not ask) I told her about the baby being breech and having to have a section and this is what she said... "well I'm kind of relieved b/c I've had it in the back of my mind all this time that something was going to go wrong.".......:blink: :blink: :blink:

Can you believe she said that to me?!! What is her deal? Why would she say something like that. See, her daughter (my SIL) had 3 sections and they think that's the way you're supposed to have a baby. I'm just really not in the mood to deal with her today.

Sorry..had to vent.
 
LeeAndra said:
Are you sure she's not Megan's hospital harasser?!? ;)
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*snort*!

That suuuuuuuuuuucks Nikki! You def need to make her understand that that is not how things are going to go when the lil one comes. Do it now so you're not stressing about it later on, ya know?
 
I am so sorry. I understand completely. My MIL and I are not on great terms, we really never have been. And when you are pregnant it just seems so much worse. So I am very sorry. (((hugs)))
 
Sorry Nikki...just what you need above all the other stress you have right now :cursing: {{{hugs}}} I hope it goes OK and I agree that you should explain to her what will happen when the baby comes, get rid of some of the stress now instead of later, KWIM?
 
Ughh Im sorry...try not to strangle her. Just keep thinking in a few days youll have your new baby girl and your hubby home with you and this one day will just be a slight nuisance on the way there.
 
Ugh. Sorry!!!

If I didn't care for my MIL my response probably would have been "Oh thank you but I'm going to stay with my parents for a few days so I can get some rest before the baby comes. I'm so sorry I won't be home. But I really appreciate your offer." and then I would have closed the curtains, locked the doors and turned the phone off....

Some family members just suck that way... {{HUGS}}
 
Oh, that sucks. I can say a lot of bad things about my in-laws, but at least my mother-in-law never tries to 'help'. lol
 
Oh no...sorry you have to deal with that! I hope she doesn't drive you crazy! You don't need to be stressing out right now! I hope her bad juju stays away from you and the baby LOL!
 
my4boys said:
Sorry Nikki...just what you need above all the other stress you have right now :cursing: {{{hugs}}} I hope it goes OK and I agree that you should explain to her what will happen when the baby comes, get rid of some of the stress now instead of later, KWIM?
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I agree with this! ...I think I would be staying at my parents' house as well and tell her she doesn't need to come...but thank you for the offer.
 
That would seriously stress me out as well sweetie!! I function better knowing that my monster-in-law is in another state than me. LOL
 
Paula said:
That would seriously stress me out as well sweetie!! I function better knowing that my monster-in-law is in another state than me. LOL
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LOL, Paula! Well, my sister just got a call from her MIL (who lives 2 provinces away) that they'll be at her house in an hour... :blink: Thanks for the warning, huh?
 
I can totally understand why you wouldn't want to deal with her right now....LOL

Want me to take care of her? I'm pretty good at it....My MiL isn't speaking to me right now....:)
 
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