from googling:
A Special Welcome to Your Tea Party
Upon a arrival escort the girls to a "dress-up" room.
Where they'll find dresses, shoes, hats and of course white tea gloves to wear during the party. Add hint of blush and lipstick and the girls will be ready for their special party.
TIP:
Begin collecting the dress-up items during the weeks before the party.
Thrift stores, friends and relatives are the best source.
Set the Table Please
Although tea parties are generally calm ands little girls are on their
best behavior. We suggest a little physical activity to let loose those
little girl sillies. this game will do the trick!
Place an X on the ground/floor to establish a starting line.
Proved a Kid-sized table a reasonable distance away from the "X".
If you don't have a table, a cloth covered box with do.
Gather a proper tea setting; plastic tea cup, saucer, tea pot, spoon, sugar bowl, creamer, dessert fork etc. Place all of the items into a box or basket and place at the starting line marked "X". All of the girls will begin at the starting line. When you say "Go!", one player at a time will quickly bring a piece of the place setting to the table and return to the starting line.
Then the next player takes turn and so on ,until the table is set. You may want to establish a time limit to add to the excitement. It's important that no breakable or sharp objects be used.
Kit's Tip: Consider drawing a setting guide on a paper placemat. Place it
on the table for the girls to follow.
and you are sure to have a great party with these ideas from Family Fun - LOVE the tea bag party favor idea using white paper bags!!!
http://familyfun.go.com/parties/birthday/feature/famf0700bdayparty/famf0700bdayparty2.html