bryn, i totally get what you mean

i have tons of books that i use to come up with ideas - plus i read a bunch of kids craft/learning blogs. what works for me is to come up with weekly 'themes' and then compile of list of things that go with that theme ...then i pick from that list whenever it's craft time, etc. i also just try to 'think' of that theme when we're doing other things b/c maybe i can work it in our 'normal' play too ...
also - i try to do a letter craft each day (i don't always get there!) and talk about letters and their sounds w/out being too boring! (my daughter turns 3 this october) .... we sing ABCs a lot and she knows a lot of her letters/numbers just from our normal play and what her toys are ...
e.g., this week, i'm doing rainbows/colors ... some ideas i have:
playing with paint in rainbow colors - and mixing colors to make new colors
playing with food coloring/water and mixing colors to make new colors (she loves to do this LOL)
various rainbow crafts w/ coloring/contruction paper etc ...
making rainbow cupcakes
doing a rainbow muffin tin for lunch
reading rainbow books and singing rain/rainbow/sun songs
making a rainbow colored 'R'
make rainbow colored ice cubes and play in bath with paints
write color words on paper and play games to stick them to things in the house that are that color
color memory game (w/ little squares of colors)
etc etc etc .... u get the idea
