Divorce Schmivorce

LenaGardner

LenaGardner

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ugh, I'm so tired of it! I have spared you girls really most of it. I haven't talked much about it publicly...though you've seen the layouts ;)

Really it's going fine...I suppose...it will all be over soon....the emotions, I'm still going through them...

but I swear if ONEMORE person who I am only friends with on FB for lordknowswhy comes to my wall and says "whoa, wait you're single now?" I'm going to scratch my eyes out.

It's embarassing. It's embarassing that I failed at marriage.

Twice.

No, *I* am not a failure. It's embarassing I picked two failures for husbands. I am not the girl with that kind of judgement.

Only apparently I am

So this girl I used to be friends with...we don't live near each other anymore and grew apart. The last time I saw her was the week after wasband#1 left. We are friendly, heck one time we were really close...she was a bridesmaid in wedding#1. But we just don't talk anymore. No falling out, just whatever. She was never tactful.

I just get a wall post from her.

(no, not a PM like atleast most people have had the decency to defer to):

Hey, what happened to David?

And I replied back to her:
the answer to your question is best answered through a series of songs:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rNQRfBAzSzo

and:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q8Tiz6INF7I

and:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dJZDsJ8UU64

;)
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Pls tell me I did good & everything will settle down soon, etc...b/c I've really had a hellofaday and I could use some coddling. And a laugh. (see above). And a drink.
 
*giggles*
I love it Lena :) Excellent song choices.
I don't understand people who have no tact like that.
 
yesh.. it happens a lot. when t first left I got a zillion "worried" inquiries.. lol I was like ook. Sometimes it's sweet.. other times its just like please bugger off.
 
in her defense, SHE doesn't know she's the 50th person to ask me. But still.

She's wanting details, juicy tidbits of an old acquaintances' life going to crap. And she ain't gettin' it from me! Just vagueries that serve to amuse me and annoy her.
 
oh, and I totally pictured Mary Catherine Gallagher when I was typing this to her. Which made it that much more amusing.

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(((hugs)))) sweetie!! I'm going through it right now as well, and it's so up and down...it's frustrating! If ya ever want to talk, I'm here...if you don't mind it being a 2-way convo, haha! :)
 
You could just blame it on the stats!!

Seriously - I think your deflective work is genius - a good sign that you are working in the right direction!! --- And this from someone who is just stepping in blindly:huh:!!

Hope your bumpy road gets some new smooth slick resurfacing real soon Lena!! Its certainly a tough thing to go through no matter how many times around!! {{hugs}}
 
I feel certain you are never hard up for a laugh; you seem to have a great sense of humor.

and in the words of Clairee in Steel Magnolias: Well, you know what they say: if you don't have anything nice to say about anybody, come sit by me!
 
I went through it to Lena at one point in time so I know how you feel. You sound like you are doing great though so just keep your head up and keep doing what youre doing.
 
So sorry Lena! When I went through divorce 1 and 2.....FB wasn't around so I don't know how it feels to go through all of this publicly. But, I am with you on the embarrassment you can feel and the sense of failing.

I'm sending warm thoughts, prayers and big hugs your way girlie. You will be so much stronger after all of this and you are a great role model for your children. Keep your chin up! :)
 
besides the fact that he is in a few of these shots....
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THIS IS WHAT YOU DID GREAT!!! they {the ex's} are the losers, so keep on going and keep on trucking girlfriend!!!!
 
So one of my best friends from childhood who was in my wedding and we still talk through email often, but we live really far apart now. I got an email from her a couple of months ago saying this was her new address, I replied back saying, when did you start using your maiden name. She responded back should be official in a little bit. So, I have no idea, I assume she is getting a divorce. Anyway, I didn't respond, a comment on your wall is not appropriate either.
 
A great response...and your song choice made me pull out all the Queen and blare it through out the house...My family thanks you.
 
You did beautifully Lena. Love the song choices and if anyone needs to ask questions and wants details they need to get their own life. Wanting the gory details of another person's hard times is sick. And you are not a failure. It is all just another pothole on the road to true happiness.
 
I think you did great. It's really no ones business unless you feel like telling them. Especially not someone who hasn't been a "real" friend to you in a long time. Hang in there. *hugs*
 
i think that's crap. i hate when semi-friends come out of the woodwork to get juicy tidbits. it's not classy dude. your musical rebuttle was awesome! i could see it all played out in my head.
 
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