I can't do this anymore.........

[lauren grier]

I need a big hug.. or..... a rocket to siberia something... it all started over somethign stupid.. ex said he was buying ce snow boots.. he bought him work boots- not going to cut it here.. I asked him why he bought those (I wasn't even mean.. or yelling.. I try to be pleasant with him really..) and it's been an entire day of constant verbal abuse from him.. he's STILL texting me.. at 1030 at night.. he's called me a c* about 5 times in the past minutes.. he's manipulative and evil and I'm sitting here in shambles because I just can NOT take it anymore.. I've had a tough enough freakin time over here dealing with ce's stuff.. I haven't even told you guys fully everything going on with him (in the main board here).. and I just....... I don't know.. I just want it all to go away. I told himto stop texting me and he sent 2 more texts telling me how much of a c* i was.. he's supposed to pick ce up for an hour tomorrow and I just..... I don't know. I'm sorry.. this makes no sense.. I just know you guys are good for hugs.. and that's all I need right now..

[suze]

Big big cuddly hugs la... And i want to go all kung fu on his a* for treating you like that.

[Jennilyn]

http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e69/LuvMy2Ks/Smilies/282403.gif He's such a douche...ugh.

http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e69/LuvMy2Ks/Smilies/bighuglz4.gif

[cindys732003]

Oh no La, I'm so sorry, you shouldn't have to deal with that crap!
Big hugs!!!!!

[DawnMarch]

(((hugs))) sweetie. He's being an abusive jerk.

[heathergw]

(((((((HUGE HUGS)))))))

[Nikki Epperson]

Big HUGS La!!!!

:(

[tettletop20]

Huge, huge hugs. WE LOVE YOU!

[HeatherKS]

Lots of hugs for you.

[Jenn Barrette]

I am sorry La. (*hugs*) I seriously hate him so much for his abusive and frankly ridiculous behavior. If I ever met him, I would kick him in the balls, if he had any that is.

[gracielou]

I really sorry you are having to deal with junk like that. Lots of hugs coming your way!!!!

[chastml]

I'm so sorry, La. Lots of hugs!!

[Lauren Reid]

can't you get a restraining order or something?! he is so evil and should def not be in your life and is def not good for ce's world.......

big big hugs

oxoxoxoox

[gypsystar]

{{{GINORMOUS HUGS}}}

[neenee]

Oh La.....I am so sorry you have to deal with such an A**hole. No one should be talked to that way. Can you just shut your phone off for the night or put it away? Just get away from it, take a hot bath, light some candles.......put on a good funny movie you love? Maybe have a glass of wine if you like wine. Try to relax a bit sweetie. I will be thinking about you and sending you positive vibes. You know how much we all love you here.

{{BIG HUGS}}

[Leila]

{{HUGS}} La. I'm so sorry you're dealing with that.

can't you get a restraining order or something?! he is so evil and should def not be in your life and is def not good for ce's world.......

big big hugs

oxoxoxoox

I agree with Lauren. And if you can't--DOCUMENT every word. EVERY. SINGLE. WORD. Every call, every text, every e-mail. Everything.

[Kat Stokes]

{{{HUGE HUGS LA}}}!!!! He's a jerk. I wanna kick him hard....

[isaacsmom]

I'm sorry you're having to deal with all of that! (((HUGS)))

[Nathalie]

Lots of HUGS :hugs::wub:

[aly321]

So sorry La! We all love you and are sending BIG HUGS!!!!! ♥

[Brooke W]

Big {{{{{hugs}}}}} to you La.

[ajf9597]

((hugs)) La

[WalkersMommy]

((((((big giant hugs))))))

[kscwgirl]

Hugs La!!! I seriously want to set fire to that jackass. :cursing:

[meganmecrazy]

((((((HUGS))))))

[mpatry]

Hugs La!

[joelsgirl]

So sorry he is such a creep and a failure as a human being.

[lizzyfizzy]

a hug for you and a kick in the nuts for T. can i say nuts on television??

[jorgies5]

Big hugs La!

[psalm149]

HUGS La!

[nun69]

so so sorry La..and I agree with the restraining order if he is going to be that much of an a-hole!

[Julie Billingsley]

((hugs))

[Nettio]

That's just ridiculous. :hugs:

[litabells]

Ugh. Seriously, what an a$$.

Big hugs to you! {{HUGS}}

[crystalbella77]

ugh! That is seriously awful La! I am so sorry! :( HUGE GIANT HUGS!

[kristine]

Oh, that is so bad! Turn your phone off, and have a nice long bath. You are better than him, and don't deserve this at all.

[FireWolf]

I agree, turn off the phone and have a nice bath or whatever it is that you like to do to relax and forget life for a while.

I know your were in the process of a divorce, is that final now? If not I'm would suggest you get your attorney to fight for ongoing mediation. If it is final then you would need to go a different route and I'm not sure what that would be in your state. As abusive as he is you shouldn't have to deal with him personally EVER. Document everything and use it to get him out of your hair.

[sannajeannine]

Arghh....he needs punched in his pie hole! Huge (((((hugs)))) for you, La

[rachaelsscraps]

Can you kick him in the crotch?! I'll do it for you!!! Well, I wish I could!!

Big Hugs though!!!!

[LenaGardner]

(((Hugs)))

[nikkiARNGwife]

Big big hugs!!!!

[emmasmommy]

How much can one person take!?! I'd threaten his dumb a$$ with going to the police for harassment. That is UNACCEPTABLE.

**huge hugs**

[junebug]

(((Huge ginormous hugs))) what an effing scumbag. i know what its like to be called names and treated like dirt so it really pisses me off to hear of one of my friends going through it. i'd like to kick him in the balls.

[Sharon Kay]

I would think as long as you had Ce with you...you could turn off your phone...can't feed his need to be abusive if you turn him off (literally)... don't read the texts the next day...just delete them. {{{La}}} I'm so sorry you have to put up with him...

[~Julie~]

{{{Huge Hugs}}}

[Keely~B]

I'm so sorry La! It's honestly hard to comprehend how someone could be such a tool.

[rach3975]

((hugs)) I'm so sorry you have to deal with that! No one should treat you so badly :(

[jessica31876]

Im sorry. It sucks when people act like that!! Make sure you save those texts though because you can do something about him behaving like that. It is so important to co-parent a child when you are no longer with the other parent and this guy does not sound like he is even trying. Also I wouldnt even respond to his abusive texts. People like him seem to enjoy knowing they are hurting the other person KWIM? If you do not respong with a text he would eventually stop and saving them will show the judge when/if you have to take this back to court and it sounds like you probably should. He really needs to A.grow up, B.take some parenting classes and C.take some anger management classes.

[digideb]

I. Hate. T!!! (((((hugs))))) La! Love ya girlie!

[MamaBee]

What a jackass! Sounds like he's threaten by you... and believe in karma... his time will come... heck it already has, he lost you and you were the best thing that will ever happen to him!

{{hugs}} I hope he has blown it out of his system... or a$$... and life get back to normal.

[tuneskids]

sorry you have to deal with the jerk La ... exes are just that title for a reason, and 98% of them are a$$es.
Turn off the phone, try to unwind. And make sure, as bad as it is, that you document everything and hand over to your lawyer.

[lauren grier]

thanks girls.. i'm feeling better this morning, I turned off my phone and laid down with ce.. he was super sweet. I of course am not about to tell him what happened.. but he knew someone said something bad- because the only other time I've been visibly upset in front of him was another incident like this with his dad.
I don't have a lawyer..... some of you know the ordeal.. Ive been fighting legal aid but they've told me I make too much numerous times now-- and I cant afford a 2500 retainer to fight T (or even the 250 an hour if I just give him everything he wants). I am still waiting on this one volunteer place but I have to be served first and that hasn't happened. I'm feeling mostly helpless and have been for months. I'm going to make some calls today because I can't let this continue anymore.

[Amy Carey]

turn the phone off for a little while hon. I know exactly what that is like. When my husband drinks (which he is working on now finally), his deal is verbal abuse, which to me I'd rather you slap me. so I know how that feels. You're too good for that and you're a GREAT mom to a fantastic little boy. you've got a lot on your shoulders now and I'll say a prayer for you; Try to find a few minutes today to do a little summin summin just for you, even if it's read a book or take a bath. You need to decompress. And the problem lies with HIM, not you. Just remember that. {{{BIG HUGS}}}

[meems]

((hugs))

[scrap2day]

{{{hugs}}}

[pewtertm]

I don't have much to say that the others haven't already said...you do NOT deserve to be treated like this...he is an idiotic scumbag (and sorry, I might be insulting scum to call him that).
Big hugs, and I hope and pray that something will come through w/legal to help you out. There's no way you should have to deal with his abusive behavior in any way, shape, or form.

[schock77]

Big hugs La.................. sorry!

[ColleenSwerb]

Man La, that's awful :( I'm so sorry he's such an abusive piece of work. I hope you got some phone calls made and can make some kind of progress on all of this!

[oohlala]

I'm sorry. I will be praying for you and ce!!
Hugs!

[jaylensmom]

Hugs La...When he texts you just ignore him unless it's related to Ce...he's most likely trying to get a reaction from you...Like they say misery loves company...It really sounds like he needs his a#$ kicked...