I also do everything quite differently from the rest of the girls...
I have one huge folder that is called "Digi Kits". Inside that folder are folders containing each individual kit I own. I just name them whatever the kit is.
Within each individual kit folder, I have the papers and the folder preview as well as a folder for the alpha and one for the elements.
Ok, here's where it gets a bit confusing but I SWEAR it works perfectly for me.
In addition to the individual kit folders, I have a folder titled "alphas" that contains individual alpha folders that can be used universally. You know, ones that are pretty versatile and can be easily recolored, etc.
I also have an "elements" folder that has folders within it titled buttons, frames, staples, stitches, brushes, journal boxes, etc. In those folders I put elements from kits (I don't remove them from their original kits, I just copy them) that are versatile and universal like staples, stitches, etc.
In the "brushes" folder I have individual folders for alphas, doodles/flourishes, date stamps, paint (strokes), etc. Thats where I put the abr files of all my brushes. That way, I'm not chasing my brush files all over my huge stash.
I've thought about getting ACDSee (or whatever its called) but I have a pretty good system that works for me, so I'm stickin' with it.

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