That's crazy. I can't even believe someone would get on your case for photo editing. Really?!! I have a friend on Facebook who posts pictures all the time which she has processed in a way that I don't like (at all) but I can't imagine ever mentioning it. Because, duh. She obviously thinks it looks nice. And they're her pictures. And if that's how she wants them it's no one else's business.
I absolutely do not think a family member should be criticizing you on Facebook for your layouts (which are good) or your photo editing which I haven't seen on the picture you may have realized you could do better on. You can edit your pictures any way you want because it's your hobby and anyone who doesn't like it can open Photoshop and make their own layout.
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