That's pretty much how Mormon temple weddings are. The ceremony itself is small with only close family and a few close friends - the rooms just don't accommodate a ton of people - I think 40 is about as big as they get. Then there's usually a luncheon that includes a little bit larger group, but still relatively intimate. And, then the reception is the time when everyone you've ever known can stop by and offer congratulations. I think it's a pretty nice way to go.