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do you..
get upset/frustrated at your children for personality traits or problems that are actually the same things you have?
As many know.... i'm quite scatterbrained. I feel bad for my team quite often because I have a hard time staying organized/on task/with it.. anyways, this past week I got frustrated at lily a few times for just not being focused and scatterbrained and i'm sitting here thinking like how can i be upset with her for being the same as I am.. |
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Yup, all the time.
Like sometimes my eldest (5) is quite snappy with her sister. After I snap at her for being rude, the penny drops ...
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ummm...totally! I yell at my kids for yelling!!!!! and DH points that fact out ALL THE TIME!
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I can't tell you how many times I yell at my daughter for something and then think to myself "ugh, she's just like me"
My mother tells me that she sometimes calls addison alisa because not only does she look like I did but she acts just like me.
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Um....yes...all. the. time. My mother really enjoys this fact, as she laughs at me and says "she's just like you were when you were her age."
Casey loves to read, give her a book and she shuts out the world, it drives me insane. Until I'm reading and all of a sudden I hear "MOM!" and I look up and she says "I've been trying to get your attention for like 5 minutes." Oops.
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my daughter a little bit. She is alot like me but then so different at the same time. But everyone tells me she reminds them of me so much. One thing she does that constantly annoys me is say she is fat. She is a size 5 and weighs like 115 pounds. Its crazy that she thinks she is fat but I was that way at her age too and would kill to be that size again LOL
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My #2 son is a lot like me. So far, the parts that are like me don't bug me too much - he's just too young for them to be big issues. But, I'm sure as he gets older, those things will bug me more. However, my #1 son is just like hubby. And, they both drive me insane for the same reasons. I'm constantly rolling my eyes at my husband when he's frustrated with DS#1. I'm always thinking, "He's EXACTLY like you!" We're all just getting payback for what we put our parents through.
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I def believe our children are our payback lol
My 4yr old is exactly like me in what bugs her. I find as I get older I have the worst noise aversions and she's just like that NOW at 4..drives me CRAZY but then I think golly I'm the same way lol wonder where they learn it from!
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Absolutely not. I think you are just a wierdo.
JK.....yep. My son drives me bonkers and acts JUST like me. Poor kid. |
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I always get annoyed by the fact that my son can never find anything, but, uh, yeah, I do the same thing all the time. I just hate that now I gotta search for twice the stuff.
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Ha. My SS acts just like DH, and yup, they both drive me insane.
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I haven't noticed things how J is like me... maybe I'm too close to the forest??? But he is very much like hubby... and that drives me nuts... the engineer gene is very strong, in this one...
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My daughter is my clone and It frustrates me all the time because I see some of my flaws in her..... and I see her making the same mistakes I made as a kid - I so need to get over it! - Living through the mistakes that I made have made me a better person! But to answer your question - YES all the time!!!!!!
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yes- I get so mad at my 3 yo for constantly getting into things that he is not supposed to and my mom just laughs because she says I was the same way.
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Yep, all of the time! Annika is REALLY hard on herself and super picky when it comes to what she'll eat and it frustrates me but I am the same way.
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Yep I see so much of me in Evan it is ridiculous and I try to remember that I turned out OK! And then I find I am doing things like my Mom that drive me nuts, so I'm getting it from both sides! Oh the circle of life!
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Umm, yes. My oldest and I go around and around and she just generally drives me nuts. As has been pointed out to me many times, we are a LOT alike. lol
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Absolutely! My DS has been extra sarcastic lately, and I just can't imagine that he could get that from me
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My oldest is exactly like my husband. Exactly.
My youngest is more like me. Very dramatic! I also see a lot of my brothers in him.
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My DD talks a mile a minute - so fast sometimes that I understand NOTHING she said. And I have to laugh, because my nickname when I was little was "Magpie" because I talked so fast! She is just like me!
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lol I totally agree.
My middle son is a lot like me, so I actually don't lose my temper at him often when it comes to the annoying habits of mine he has. I remember how hard it was for me with remembering to do things, staying on task, etc. so I try harder to not lose my temper or get frustrated with him. My eldest however has all my good traits and his father's bad ones. So... I generally get mad at his dad. lol
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My oldest dd and I tend to butt heads. We are VERY much alike.
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My youngest son used to drive me mad as a teenager as he always had to have the last word when being told off, cant think where he gets that from!!! Now he has a son of his own and I tell him he has it all to come.
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