View Full Version : The hubster is a jerk
Paula
07-23-2008, 11:28 PM
Ok, I am so ticked off right now!
I have spent the last two days deep cleaning my kitchen and tonight, I didn't feel like cooking. So, I made a grocery list for him to get chef salad makings. He came home, I was getting ready to get in the shower, so youngest DD started making the salad. She cut the ham, cheese, eggs, lettuces, green onions, cucumber and tomatoes. It looked delicious!!
I put some Texas toast in the oven before I took my shower and told the hubster to check on it when the timer went off. I heard the timer go off and I heard him go into the kitchen.
Well, I finish the shower - shaved my legs and all so it took longer - and the kitchen is SMOKING!! He fell asleep on the darn bed and let the bread burn. Then I'm dishing out the salad and he says - "That ham was supposed to be cooked first." WTH!
My DD starts crying because she thinks she ruined our dinner, but in all fairness, she didn't know that the ham had to be cooked. When I buy ham steaks, I buy the ones that are pre-cooked especially for serving in cold dishes. So, this jerk tells her that she needs to read the package from now on. Another WTH!
So he's in there dishing out all the ham to pan fry it - but I am still afraid to eat it because there is still ham juice in there where the raw was.
Now this is the clincher - he's pissed off at me because I wouldn't eat the salad with the damn raw ham in it. The package clearly says COOK THOROUGHLY.
Ok, vent over. :cursing:
tuneskids
07-23-2008, 11:33 PM
this is what makes me glad hubby works every night at dinner time. I may not want to cook, but at least I don't have to deal with him in the kitchen.
thankfully, the oldest boy loves cooking, and is awesome at following directions (either from a recipe or me).
I don't blame you Paula, I wouldn't eat it either!!
LenaGardner
07-23-2008, 11:33 PM
(((hugs)))
boys are stupid.
meganmecrazy
07-23-2008, 11:50 PM
<<<<HUGS>>>> Men can really suck sometimes!
crystalbella77
07-23-2008, 11:53 PM
UGH! How crappy, Paula! Men really can suck! I hope he gets nicer! {{hugs}}
juliemarie
07-23-2008, 11:54 PM
Men! Reminds me of a quote I saw recently...
Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then. - Katherine Hepburn
MelindaH
07-23-2008, 11:56 PM
Men! Reminds me of a quote I saw recently...
Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then. - Katherine Hepburn
Oh yeah ... this makes a lot of sense!
I'm sorry, Paula. For what it's worth, there is no way in H-E-double-hockey-sticks that you'd get me to eat that salad!
~Melinda
lizzyfizzy
07-24-2008, 12:04 AM
men can be such freaking morons...goodness. your poor dd!
**Holly**
07-24-2008, 12:22 AM
Yup Men are idiots!
lauren grier
07-24-2008, 12:33 AM
ditto Lena.. BOYS are STUPID! what a butt! :( Sorry you had a bad night Paula!
Paula
07-24-2008, 12:33 AM
Thanks ladybugs!! I ended up eating some pudding! LOL
SamaraGugler
07-24-2008, 12:43 AM
I'm right there with you Paula. There is no way in H E double L would I have had that salad and you better believe that my DH would give me crap about it too!!!!
AddictedScrapper
07-24-2008, 12:44 AM
OMGosh Paula like you really needed that to add onto your day. Goodness! And for what it's worth I would never have eaten that salad either, he'll get sick and wish he didn't either!
Coila
07-24-2008, 12:48 AM
I'm sorry :( What is that make men do and say such stupid things? You are definitely not alone!!
It was sweet of your daughter to try though... poor thing.
lisabranka
07-24-2008, 12:54 AM
why wasn't he helping her in the kitchen? hmmm hmm???
MEN
Brooke W
07-24-2008, 01:34 AM
Gawd, what a day you had Paula :blink:
Laura_A
07-24-2008, 01:51 AM
Dumb boy!!!!
~Julie~
07-24-2008, 10:16 AM
{{Hugs}} Palua. Men can be jerks sometimes. I wouldn't have eaten the salad either. He knew you were in the shower he could have been more attentive.
meems
07-24-2008, 10:21 AM
ahh, the menfolk :cursing:. sorry your dinner didn't go well, Paula.
Neither DH nor I would have eaten that salad.
Hope your DD is not scared off salad making.
Amy Carey
07-24-2008, 10:28 AM
Men! Reminds me of a quote I saw recently...
Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then. - Katherine Hepburn
ROFL oh that would be so perfect! I have actually often thought I would love for my dh to go to truck driving school so that I'd see him just occasionally, lol. That's pretty bad huH?
Sorry you had a rough night Paula. I can send my teenage son to ya..he's a great cook! I hardly EVER have to cook!
pewtertm
07-24-2008, 12:05 PM
(((hugs)))
boys are stupid.
DITTO that! If that were my DH, he'd find a VERY cold bed (or couch LOL) after that kind of crap attitude.
Priscilla
07-24-2008, 12:09 PM
mean people suck :(
sorry he was s jerk :(
my3hens
07-24-2008, 01:01 PM
Oh my honey, sounds like a fun night! Im sorry your dh was being such a pita, I have been there and can totally sympathise! Hugs!
kscwgirl
07-24-2008, 01:34 PM
Men are stupid. Sorry he was a jerk, Paula!! (((((hugs))))
ScrappinFlo
07-24-2008, 01:34 PM
paula, so sorry about dinner. that just plain sucks.
nun69
07-24-2008, 05:00 PM
{{{HUGS}}} Paula, but after all that damn work you did all day, I would have let him eat salad and I would have taken DD and gone out to eat!!!!:p but that's the kinda person I am....hope your day was better today!
DaleAnn/dcdesigns
07-24-2008, 06:46 PM
Uggh. They can just be so stupid.
da
newfiemountiewife
07-24-2008, 06:54 PM
Argggggg!
hayatiggs
07-25-2008, 10:59 PM
What a goober!! Tomorrow night he would get a big plate of cooked ham pieces for dinner and nothing else. And I would make sure he knew how badly he hurt your DD's feelings.
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