I need a hug!!!

[neenee]

My oldest daughter moved out today. :cry:

I am at my Mom's visiting so, I am not even home. She left a note for her Dad telling him she was leaving. She has no job, no money, no car and is in school full time. I don't even even know where she went.

I got mad at her today because I didn't like some of the things she was doing so this was how she reacted.
I know this may be best in the long run because sometimes "tough love" is what makes you grow up and make better choices but, it's still hard.

So, if you all would just send a hug and some good thoughts my way I would appreciate it and desperately need it.

[Leila]

{{Hugs}} I'm sorry this happened NeeNee. I hope she's back soon.

[Balinda]

Oh goodness..I know you are worried sick over her...
Big Ole Huggies sent to ya and prayers for her that God guides her
in the right directions.

[[michele]]

Sending you big (((((hugs))))).

[isaacsmom]

(((Hugs))) NeeNee. Sending lots of positive thoughts your way!

[AmberK]

Im so sorry...I hope she comes back home soon. HUGS!

[Lyd]

HUGE hugs NeeNee! You know I love your guts!

[lisabranka]

ahhh I'm sorry.. big hugs (((hugs)))

[DeepGirl]

(((hugs))) Not a parent yet, but I can understand...

[yari]

Oh my gosh, NeeNee, so sorry to hear that. I hope she comes back soon! BIG hugs going your way. She's most likely with someone she knows, a friend or boyfriend. I remember when I was a teenager. :P

[MandaT]

(((HUGS)))) Lots of good thoughts & prayers for you & your family.

[breakingbrie]

(((hugs))) NeeNee, and sending positive thoughts your way.

[Julie Billingsley]

oh no! :( Many hugs NeeNee!

[pomi]

(((Hugs))) NeeNee!

[Ebony]

:( Neenee! Thinking positive thoughts for you and your girlie. Hope everything works out for the best. *HUGS*

[nietis]

Awww sorry to hear this, neenee!! Here is a big ol' hug for you, sweetie *HUGS*

[nanienamou]

(((HUGS))) Sending positive thoughts your way.

[Chantal Miller]

(((hugs))). Hope she comes soon

[Gabbina]

*Hugs* She'll be fine, i'm sure, and you two will work things out.

[KirstieGai]

(((((hugs))))) hope everything works out

[jessica31876]

I am really sorry. Ive been there too and it is soooo HARD!! My daughter moved several towns away which would not be bad but being as though my husband is out of work and we have so many appointments to deal with for drs and lawyers we barely make our bills and manage all of those so we dont have anything leftover to go see her. I see her on facebook posting how she is spending the day with her boyfreinds mom going shopping or the library or something else or just hanging out and that is because she lives only about 5 miles from my daughter and her boyfriend so I feel so left out and that his mom is basically moving into my place. (yes I know this is probably totally stupid and not true logically but emotionally it STINGS big time). When I try to tell her how much it hurts she gets angry and says she is not having this discussion right now (because it is usually when his mom is there). Anyhow I know what you are feeling...going through it too and I can totally sympathise with you :(

[emmasmommy]

huge hugs Mama! <3

[MamaBee]

Another big hug coming your way from me... love ya, sweetie!

[sprauncey1]

Hugs NeeNee! Hopefully this is just a teenage fit and she'll come back to her senses quickly!

[nonnie]

Big Big Hugs NeeNee -

[joelsgirl]

I'm so terribly sorry! That's really hard.

[ayaandjudah]

Oh no, many, many hugs to you. How old is she? Will she answer a cell phone?

I'll be thinking of you a lot.

[LibbysMommy]

((((hugs)))) NeeNee!!

[Keely~B]

I'm sorry NeeNee, I'm sending hugs and good thoughts in your direction.

[loribear]

Awww NeeNee I am so sorry that you are going through this! What a huge bummer, but you are right, the tough love may be what is good! We are doing that my oldest boy and in the last year I have seen some really HUGE changes in him! For the GOOD! He was making very bad choices about friends and other bad things so we took control last year and sent him to like a locked down bootcamp/rehab and I tell ya it was the hardest thing I have ever done as he cried for weeks for us to come and get him.. my heart was totally broken! BUT a year and a bit later he has learned how to deal with life much better, he is clean and sober and making better choices for himself, he will be home in September finally and actually this past weekend he actually got a weekend job at our local antique market. Just hang in there girl, I know how you are feeling and it definitely is tough but the results in the end may be just what you needed! I hope so anyways, lots of love to you hun
Huggs
Lori

[litabells]

:( Hugs sweetie

[newfiemountiewife]

Neenee, I'm so sorry :(

I hope she contacts you soon. I know sometimes it's for the best for them to move on their own, but that would never make it any easier. I'll be thinking about you, update when you can.

[ariesfl326]

Sending big hugs your way! Somehow it will work out in the end.

[heathergw]

you've got my hugs and prayers hon

[HeatherKS]

Oh no. :( Lots of love and prayers coming your way. *hugs*

[schock77]

:( I know it must be hard, but hang in there. HUGS!

[neenee]

Oh no, many, many hugs to you. How old is she? Will she answer a cell phone?

I'll be thinking of you a lot.

She is 19. Her dad called her yesterday afternoon after he came home and found she had left. She did not answer but he left her a message saying that he was not upset or angry and that we just needed to make sure she was safe and where she was. He asked that she call back last night.

She never called. She has however texted with my youngest DD saying she was fine but that she would not tell us where she is because she doesn't want us to call the cops (not sure why she thinks that - she is an adult?) and she doesn't want us to tell her recent ex-boyfriend where she is. There is a long story behind it but it's a classic girls want bad boys and her ex-boyfriend of 2 years is well, just about as perfect as a parent could ask for for their daughter. They just broke up on Tuesday and Wednesday she was at the pool (our community pool) with another boy who is just a loser. Anywho, there is tons more going on but, she is just making bad life choices. I am fine with her not being with her ex, of course, but her Dad and I want her to focus on finishing school and starting a healthy life on her own. I do not condone her jumping from one guy to another and then posting all about it on facebook. It just looks "bad" if you kwim.

[Giseli Freitas]

Oh, no! :(
(((HUGS)))
I know that's hard. But I hope this is just about a 'teen' thing and she contacts you SOON.

[~Julie~]

{{{{hugs}}}}

[Heather Roselli]

big squishy hugs neenee!

[crecia27]

(((NeeNee))) I know EXACTLY how you feel, its the most heartbreaking feeling. I'm saying a prayer for yall!

[ayaandjudah]

She is 19. Her dad called her yesterday afternoon after he came home and found she had left. She did not answer but he left her a message saying that he was not upset or angry and that we just needed to make sure she was safe and where she was. He asked that she call back last night.

She never called. She has however texted with my youngest DD saying she was fine but that she would not tell us where she is because she doesn't want us to call the cops (not sure why she thinks that - she is an adult?) and she doesn't want us to tell her recent ex-boyfriend where she is. There is a long story behind it but it's a classic girls want bad boys and her ex-boyfriend of 2 years is well, just about as perfect as a parent could ask for for their daughter. They just broke up on Tuesday and Wednesday she was at the pool (our community pool) with another boy who is just a loser. Anywho, there is tons more going on but, she is just making bad life choices. I am fine with her not being with her ex, of course, but her Dad and I want her to focus on finishing school and starting a healthy life on her own. I do not condone her jumping from one guy to another and then posting all about it on facebook. It just looks "bad" if you kwim.

Aw, I am really sorry. :-( This must be so hard. HUGS

[rach3975]

I'm sorry that she's choosing to learn things the hard way and making you and her father worry! I hope she gets in touch with you soon.

[Lauramarie]

Well speaking from experience from your daughter's side, although she is not the one who is having a baby? But I did have a baby young and I left home @ 18 and never went back. It was hard but in the end I am glad I did it because I learned how to fend for myself. I have a sister who just left home at age 27 and she has NO clue how to pay bills, work, wash a dish or clean her room, nothing. We do not get along but that is another story. Anyway, what I am trying to say is let her figure out that being on her own is not like living with mom and dad. She will grow from this experience and that is necessary to survive in this great big world. It will be ok :)

[msbrad]

So sorry to hear you are going thru this.
Praying, she will contact you and remains safe.
hugs-
m

[MommaTrish]

((big hugs))
Not sure what kind of relationship you had with your daughter, but I know both my brother and I ended up much closer and with a much better relationship with our mom and step-dad after we moved out. It was hard at first (emotionally and financially) but in the end, even though when each of us left (at different times) we had very strained relationship with our parents, it helped so much.