oh! update on that girl & ce

[lauren grier]

I'm really too lazy to go find the post.. but in summary. Ce was being bullied. bullies went away. Ce started picking on little girl who was bossy.
That was about it right? ^__^

Anyway.... I followed through with what I told him. That I was going to MAKE him be nice to her... and used it as an example of that whole.. honey vs vinegar doobie bit. Ce *adores* one girl in his class.. So everytime he said he wanted to do something nice for her (draw her a picture, give her a silly band ,etc etc) I made him do it for the other girl too *snicker* ......... and low and behold......... After a week or so.. it's all julia this and julia that.. and julia is so nice to me now.. and I am always nice to julia.. and I sit next to julia in class now. Etc etc......
Children are weird. but it worked out.. and they're both being nice to each other now. Couldn't ask for a better out come :]

[litabells]

hehehe Well done mama!

[Misty Cato]

Hahahaha, that's awesome!

[emmasmommy]

gotta love it!

[Lyd]

Way to go La! Ce is so lucky to have you! :) :) :)

[joelsgirl]

My husband does this with people he doesn't like. He intentionally does nice things for them and goes out of his way to be kind to them. I've always admired that about him, and I'm really proud of you for teaching it to your son!

[lovely1m]

What a great lesson.

[Sarah8914]

that's great!

[rachaelsscraps]

That is sooo cute!!!! :) My son's like that with a little girl named Amelia in his class. It's so stinking adorable!!!

[Brandy]

Aw that's awesome and something I'm going to keep tucked in if we should run into this problem.

[breakingbrie]

That is so cool! I'm glad it worked out that way.... Lol that's so cute they ended up friends. I hope he remembers this lesson for a long time - I'm gonna keep this in mind too, i'm sure my girls might be in that spot someday.

[jacinda]

Good tactic! I'm so glad it all worked out. Well done mama!