jessica31876
11-16-2010, 09:53 AM
This is a really long story but Ill try to make it short. My 17 year old son and I got into a huge argument. He (meaning my son) threatened me while his dad was standing right there. His dad decided that to seperate us would be the best choice (I had done nothing except tell him he was not making lunch at 3:00PM when dinner would be done around 5:00PM and that if he was that hungry just get a small snack to tide him over until dinner).
OK so my oldest son is at his grandparents house at that point. My husband comes home and we end up getting into an argument over this situation because he took my son's side and it is not the first time it has happened like that. He (meaning my husband) basically blamed it all on me without even so much as hearing my side of the story. Well my husband supposedly got sick about a half hour later outside. I heard him making the sound like he was throwing up but nothing came out. So he left. Did not tell me where he was going just got in the car and left. I waited for him to get home and started making phone calls after a little time had passed to try to find him (he conveniently left his cell phone at home) so around midnight I was really worried. My husband does not drink and does not frequent bars so Im like where the hell is he? I called the hospital and they said he was in the ER but was asleep and would not wake him up and would not give me any information on why he was there.
So I waited up as long as I could for him to call or to hear something on what was going on. Anything to let me know what was going on. No call or anything. So I wake up at 6 this morning when the first alarm goes off and he is not here. So I called the hospital again and again he is sleeping and they will have him call me as soon as he wakes up. So he calls me back like 45 minutes later and by that time I was worried but also really angry that he could not call at all the whole night? Well we talk but he cannot give me any info on whats going on and his nurses/doctors refuse to. They say HIPPA law wont allow it. Well anytime I have been in the hospital it was never an issue. if he called and he identified himself as my husband and he got any questions he asked answered. So I said can I speak to my husband? The nurse put me on hold and came back and said "Ma'am I just went and talked to your husband and he said he does not want to talk to you"
So its been just a horrible all around day/night. I have no idea what I am going to do about my son. I cannot live with him treating me like that. Screaming and yelling at me and then threatening me...And I believe his father should step in before he gets to that point. And then my husband tells the nurse after I am up half the night worried half to death about what is happening with him that he does not want to talk to me? Talk about me being upset. Even if I was mad at him I would never do that to him if I was in the hospital like that. That is awful.
OK so my oldest son is at his grandparents house at that point. My husband comes home and we end up getting into an argument over this situation because he took my son's side and it is not the first time it has happened like that. He (meaning my husband) basically blamed it all on me without even so much as hearing my side of the story. Well my husband supposedly got sick about a half hour later outside. I heard him making the sound like he was throwing up but nothing came out. So he left. Did not tell me where he was going just got in the car and left. I waited for him to get home and started making phone calls after a little time had passed to try to find him (he conveniently left his cell phone at home) so around midnight I was really worried. My husband does not drink and does not frequent bars so Im like where the hell is he? I called the hospital and they said he was in the ER but was asleep and would not wake him up and would not give me any information on why he was there.
So I waited up as long as I could for him to call or to hear something on what was going on. Anything to let me know what was going on. No call or anything. So I wake up at 6 this morning when the first alarm goes off and he is not here. So I called the hospital again and again he is sleeping and they will have him call me as soon as he wakes up. So he calls me back like 45 minutes later and by that time I was worried but also really angry that he could not call at all the whole night? Well we talk but he cannot give me any info on whats going on and his nurses/doctors refuse to. They say HIPPA law wont allow it. Well anytime I have been in the hospital it was never an issue. if he called and he identified himself as my husband and he got any questions he asked answered. So I said can I speak to my husband? The nurse put me on hold and came back and said "Ma'am I just went and talked to your husband and he said he does not want to talk to you"
So its been just a horrible all around day/night. I have no idea what I am going to do about my son. I cannot live with him treating me like that. Screaming and yelling at me and then threatening me...And I believe his father should step in before he gets to that point. And then my husband tells the nurse after I am up half the night worried half to death about what is happening with him that he does not want to talk to me? Talk about me being upset. Even if I was mad at him I would never do that to him if I was in the hospital like that. That is awful.