View Full Version : Well, I just got the short end
Valgal
03-03-2016, 06:58 PM
Thurs night is always date night around here. Yesterday John says that he thinks we should skip going out and it would be appreciated if I would cook a nice meal because the kids have had soup 3 nights in a row (as if that's a problem? :D ) and we can all sit down as a family together.
Ok, whatever. Works for me.
I make a super nice meal... balsamic glazed pork tenderloin, wild rice and green beans in a warm bacon vinaigrette.
Jakes goes into work for a special shift and John sheepishly calls that he's still at work and won't be home for a couple hours.
:thumbdown::thumbdown::thumbdown:
carrie1977
03-03-2016, 07:36 PM
Yes, yes you did.
carrie1977
03-03-2016, 07:36 PM
#neveragain
clucaswvu04
03-03-2016, 07:37 PM
boo :(
flowers and chocolate and foot rub in your future?
joelsgirl
03-03-2016, 07:47 PM
What?! You got the privilege of cooking a delicious meal, and every day, I say to myself, "Self. There is no greater joy than spending two hours in the kitchen preparing a meal that people are going to wolf down in 5 minutes and then spend another hour in the kitchen cleaning it all up." You won, my friend. You won.
Seriously, I feel your pain. He better make next week's date night out of this world.
icindi
03-03-2016, 08:20 PM
:( The upside is that he owes you!!
bcgal00
03-03-2016, 08:30 PM
I think he owes you a super fun night out on the town!
Valgal
03-03-2016, 09:20 PM
What?! You got the privilege of cooking a delicious meal, and every day, I say to myself, "Self. There is no greater joy than spending two hours in the kitchen preparing a meal that people are going to wolf down in 5 minutes and then spend another hour in the kitchen cleaning it all up." You won, my friend. You won.
Seriously, I feel your pain. He better make next week's date night out of this world.
YES. THIS right here.
I hate that they eat and then scamper right back off to their rooms or whatnot. Stick around and talk with me!
LeeAndra
03-03-2016, 09:27 PM
I would be livid. As in I would leave all the food out and leave the house and rage-shop. :p
nietis
03-03-2016, 09:46 PM
Ugh.... I would be super mad if Lan does that to me. He better has something up his sleeves as a compensation there.
Valgal
03-03-2016, 09:53 PM
Well, I went easy on him ;) I'll just add an extra drink to my dinner tab tomorrow, lol!
MamaBee
03-03-2016, 09:57 PM
*sigh* yup - same here... and it's getting worse. My hubby's VP is a late stayer and expects everyone else to be, too... I usually don't start supper until I see the whites of my hubby's eyes! Now Hubby says that if he is going to be home at a certain time, he has to start avoiding VP starting at 2:30pm. haha
Hopefully next week date night will be as schedule!
anelia
03-04-2016, 03:18 AM
Oh, Valerie, you're not alone!
Yesterday the same happened to me. I knew when my husband would come home and prepared something warm and nice to eat and then he texted me he'd a bit late because work was crazy and I said ok. I thought he'd be like 15-30 minutes late but you know -- he was 2 hours late! So, yeah, it happens everywhere and with everyone. So, I just enjoyed myself with a TV series and then when he came home we went out for a walk ;)
Ugh.... I would be super mad if Lan does that to me. He better has something up his sleeves as a compensation there.
This is the best :D
kendallt
03-04-2016, 10:07 AM
Yeah...he'd better be making that up to you next week!
emmasmommy
03-04-2016, 10:12 AM
booooo :(
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Keely~B
03-04-2016, 10:17 AM
Man, that's so disappointing! Definitely add that drink ;)
LoriJ
03-04-2016, 11:05 AM
That sucks, next time tell him that he can cook the nice hot meal!
lovely1m
03-04-2016, 11:27 AM
Ugh, this has been us lately, too. He keeps getting busy right at the end of shift and the food is cooked and waiting. We decided earlier this week that kiddo and I would just eat when we should rather than waiting, but I am not sure how that will go. The first day after he asked me to stop waiting, he called and asked what's for supper on his way home.
Valgal
03-04-2016, 12:41 PM
I normally would've just waited till he confirmed that he was, indeed, on his way home... but it was a roasted meat that I needed to get going before the kids left for youth group.
Oh well, not the worst thing. He did just get a massive bonus so I shouldn't complain. I did get one last little stab in before bed though... he said, "You know what you should make for dinner next week? Baked spaghetti. YUM." and I said, "Why? So I can make it and you work late again?"
Oh, snap.
OrianaVianey
03-04-2016, 12:50 PM
I
Oh well, not the worst thing. He did just get a massive bonus so I shouldn't complain. "
Thatīs only true if a day spa or a shopping spree is coming out of that bonus...
Valgal
03-04-2016, 12:50 PM
And then I apologized.
Valgal
03-04-2016, 12:50 PM
Thatīs only true if a day spa or a shopping spree is coming out of that bonus...
Oh you know it!
DawnMarch
03-04-2016, 03:02 PM
soup IS a nice meal at our house. :D
jacinda
03-04-2016, 03:04 PM
And then I apologized.
You're too soft. I wouldn't have apologized. Does him wanting you to make spaghetti next week mean he doesn't want to have date night next week too? :thumbdown:
Valgal
03-04-2016, 05:44 PM
You're too soft. I wouldn't have apologized. Does him wanting you to make spaghetti next week mean he doesn't want to have date night next week too? :thumbdown:
I told him he can make it WITH me. :thumbup:
cherrygutz
03-04-2016, 06:07 PM
Let me give you a virtual hug Val. :hugs:
NellahBean
03-04-2016, 06:36 PM
I would be livid. As in I would leave all the food out and leave the house and rage-shop. :p
I like how you think!! ;)
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