just a heads up
 

if you're in La's ct you already know all this. i'll make it short and sweet.

DH and i are getting separated. he doesn't feel like he loves me anymore and needs some time on his own to sort out things. we might end up back together or we might not. i'm going to hopefully get some low income housing and a job at some point i hope. don't know at this point if i'll be able to afford internet but i hope so. i'm completely heartbroken at this point. my face and eyes are all puffy and red from crying. i went and go milk and i must look awful; people kept looking twice at me, lol. we aren't fighting. we are civil to each other, but its almost like he's excited. at moving on and maybe finding someone else. and here i sit still loving him and feel like he ripped out my heart and ran over it with his truck. meanwhile his mom blames me cause i don't keep the house spotless but yet doesn't think he should have to help me. he should get to sit on the computer all day but yet i shouldn't be on it cause i have a house to keep clean and kids to take care of. i mean, yah i do have those responsibilities but i didnt have these kids by myself. he should help out too. i hate her. i'd like 'accidently' run over her. i think she is hoping i'll not get the kids so she can have them. or else she'll turn me in to welfare herself and claim i'm unfit. which i really scared she'll do. :(

so yah, if i'm not around much you know why. i'll keep everyone posted.

(((((((((((hugs)))))))))) to you. what a rough thing to go through. i will be thinking of you.

After all you've been through lately, now this? Oh honey. BIG big hugs.

Corey, I am SO sorry! I will be praying for you. A friend of mine is going through something very similar. Her husband moved out, got his own place, but I think he's starting to realize how lonely he is and how much she did for him. I'm praying that your DH comes to the realization soon! Sending lots of (((hugs)))!

Oh, Corey, I am so sorry to hear this. You are strong enough to handle this, I know it seems rough right now (and it is), but you can handle it. Hugs.

((Hugs))

I'm sorry sweetie :(

I'm sorry Corey! Big {{{HUGS}}}!!!

so sorry you're going through this, Corey. (((hugs)))

(((hugs))) Corey!! Your MIL may want to declare you as unfit, but it would take a LOT more than a not-quite-spotless home and a hobby to get them taken away. Don't worry about that, just concentrate on finding some work and getting yourself set back up. (((hugs))) again!

My heart breaks for you Corey...I am so very sorry. I hope the very best for you. BIG (((((HUGS))))) :(

Awww, I'm so sorry Corey! {{{HUGS}}}

(((((((Corey)))))))) You have been through so much the past couple of months. You don't deserve to add this on top too. Hang in there.

I'm so so sorry Corey! Hugs!

Corey, I am so sorry. I am praying for you and your babies.
And as for your mother in law, states don't take babies away from crackhead mothers. And I am pretty sure you are better than that. And if I recall, your husband has a diagnosis that would assure your getting custody.
Take a deep breath and feel free to pm me if you need to vent.

I kinda doubt youd lose custody of them just cause you MIL reported you. I know from personal experience how hard it is for the state to actually step in and take someone away. My step-dad was reported for molesting three of his four step-daughters and we were only taken away after the third report!! That was after several years had passed too. So a messy house and being on the computer isnt likely to make them step in. You will most likely be eligible for all kinds of financial aid and your husband will have to pay support for you and the kids. Hope he comes to his senses soon and you can work it out so you can remain together

Aw man, you don't deserve this! I'm so sorry! Please keep us posted as much as you can. Men can be such PITB's sometimes. I'm sorry!

I don't even know what to say Corey, I'm sorry.

Oh Corey.. I'm so sorry. I know that anything I say won't make you feel better, but I'll be praying for you.

((((Corey))))

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(((hugs))) Corey! That's awful! I'm so very sorry for you!

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. But if you need me, and I am sure La and a few others wouldn't mind coming over, ripping his arms off and beating him with them.:blink: That is always and option. But hugs sent to you either way.

I'm so sorry!

i like that idea, lol.

Corey, so sorry to hear this, I hope you 2 work it all out ((Hugs))

I'm so sorry, Corey! ((hugs))

hugs corey! I'm so sorry!

so sorry you are going thru this ((hugs))

i can't imagine what your going through, love. big fat hugs and prayers for you!!!

I'm so sorry Corey.

I am so sorry that you are going thru this right now...((((HUGS)))) Be strong and we are all here for you if you need us..

(((((HUGS))))) I'm so very sorry your going through this. I will keep you in my T&P.

{{{{hugs}}}} I hope everything turns out ok for you....try to keep in touch...we'll be thinking of you! ... and may I say it <MEN!> 8-P

Oh Corey Im so sorry babe, big huge hugs!!!

So sorry!

oh corey ((HUGS)) my thoughts and prayers are with you girl!!! What you are going through is the night mare for me! ((((COREY)))) We are always here for you!!!

I am so sorry, Hon. I am sending you lots of hugs and prayers. Men are so stupid sometimes.

I'm so sorry Corey {{hugs}}

I'm so sorry to hear this Corey. Big {{{{{HUGS}}}}} to you.