Speaking of worst fears....
 

Today we found out that one of my friends lost their baby with 33 weeks of pregnancy. This is your worst nightmare on itself, but if I tell you they lost their first baby also with 28 weeks 1,5 year ago it is even more painfull.

Me and our friends have had the worst 1,5 years on baby level. One other friend dealt with the same in april 2010 and delivered her baby daughter in December after 29 weeks of pregnancy. Fortunately, with her everything is wel. She is still in hospital but the future looks good for her.

Dealing with this for the third time, bringing a friend's baby to heaven is hard, even for an "outstander". We are so sad for them and can't do nothing about it....you feel so powerless.

I just had to "talk" about it.....

oh wow. i cannot imagine how awful that must feel. ((hugs)) to you and your friends!

Oh, I am sorry for them. How sad.

I had a friend lose her son at 35 weeks, and the next 2 pregnancies were so scary for her. Especially the 2nd because it was also a boy.

soo sorry to hear this..soo sad~

oh my gosh... I can't imagine... so sad.

Such sad news . . . ((hugs)) to both you & your friend.

How wow, how heartbreaking. Sending prayers to you and your friend.

I am so sorry. I will pray for God to bring comfort and healing to them, their family, and friends.

Oh no, how terribly sad for them. I'll send some prayers and positive thoughts their way!

That is so terrible. I will be thinking of that poor family.

Oh what heartbreaking news! I'll be praying for them.

This is my worst nightmare right now, being pregnant myself. Such terrible, heartbreaking news, and to have lost their first child too...so cruel. Hugs and prayers for u and your friend xxx

so so sad. hugs to u and ur friends...

Oh how heartbreaking! They will be in my prayers too!