Heather, this is actually not uncommon for him, but it is just so consistent at school. Thanks for the advice on the book, I will have to pick it up. The prinicipal deosn't know if he has ADHD or is just a very young and just not ready socially for kindergarten. So they want to see if some of his behavior is just due to it all being a new enviroment and him adjusting, so we are gonna wait a few weeks and be very consistent with him. And yes Sheri, he does have some incentives, so we are still working at it. The girl he has to go talk to in the office when he makes a bad choice and doesn't want to talk to the teacher, Tracy, actually says even though he has to come see her, there are a few things she has seen him improve with like not actually crying and yelling hysterically cause he has to go to his "buddy" room. Thanks so much girsl, I appreciate you guys so much