for me I realize sometimes I have to be the one to reach out and make the effort..I have friends like that but I also have closer ones I know I can count on that are just busy and never really make the effort that others do.
I come across as standoffish and snobby b/c I'm incredibly shy...it's just a misunderstanding among women with me I think so once I talk to them or open up I'm let in pretty easily. I'd just suggest to make the effort first and see where it goes
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