hon... i am sorry to hear you are going through this... we are stuck livig with my parents right now because last summer my hubby was offered a job in NJ our homestate. it all happened so quickly. and we decided to stay with my parents for a few months and then get our own place, etc. the problem is that even though he is making A LOT more money now, I am not working and the cost of living in NJ is outrageous. i cry about it all the time... who wants to live with their parents in their 30's, especially since right out of HS i was off to college 3000 miles away! and i could get a job but i have decided to take this time to be home with my girl... i had to go back to work 16 wks after i had her which way too fast... and she was in daycare all day for about 5 months and i hated it.
but sometimes i feel that even if i got a job we couldn't afford it!!! the costs of things are insane these days... i dont know how most people afford anything.
it is hard and frustrating but you have to do what you think is best... and as my hubby always tells me, crying isn't going to help the situation but only makes you feel worse. so try to have positive thoughts and envison the light at the end of the tunnel... it is there... you just have to be patient!
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