[stayawake]

I'm so sorry to hear what you're going through! That's rough. A lot of people I know, friends of mine have been moving to Alberta because there is work there... and they really like it actually. Things are expensive here in Ontario too - but we've managed to pay off my husbands crazy insane school debt in four years by not owning a car, and now living in co-op housing (it's a great community, though, and we live in a big townhouse which we pay practically nothing for!) for now. We just bought a car last month (our first one, and we're almost thirty!) and we are saving for a downpayment on a house. I believe that if you make the sacrifices you'll need to, you'll be able to pay for everything you need - and a lot of things you want eventually!!! It must be SO hard to sell your hosue and move again. UGH! Keep us posted on how everything goes, okay?