FOR. REAL. I feel ya. DH is in the doghouse for tone issues too. He's been REALLY bad about treating me like a child lately... as if that's not bad enough, he does it IN FRONT of the kids too so now DS has been trying to talk to me the same way.
I told DH not to talk to me, look at me, come NEAR me until he can figure out how a WOMAN IN 2009 is supposed to be treated.