I WISH it was $40 a person! LOLOL! If all 40 people are invited and show up, that's $3500 to come up with.
I'm much calmer about it today. It'll all work out just fine. I'm gonna really trim the fat so that some of these people can come, but I'm gonna have to put my foot down somewhere. On BOTH sides of the lists, so no ones feelings get hurt.