[iJenny]

I'm a cryer too, Shawna. I *rarely* cry when I'm sad. But piss me off, get me mad enough, and you'll see some major water works.

With DH, I tend to cry and yell a bit and then really sit down and talk it out. With family, friends, etc. I tend to bitch about it to DH or Lizzy and then I usually get over it pretty quickly.

La, I think your "problem" is that you don't ever deal with the emotions and the problems. There is nothing that says you have to throw a big fit or go crazy when someone hurts you. But it sounds like your gut reaction is to simply ignore the problem and *thats* where you'll get into trouble. Especially in a relationship. Feeling and emotions tend not to just "go away". They just get pushed down and manifest themselves in different ways.