(((((((HUGS)))))))) many hugs and prayers going out to you dear! I just popped over to your blog and I'm SO SO sorry your going through all of this. And how awful for someone to leave such a heartbreaking comment like that.
Try not to let it bother you though because, I guess with any situation on the internet, you can get a lot of butthole strangers to come and try to make a mess of things.
We are all here for ya Shawna!