well... here's the other thing.. we don't KNOW what has really gone on in their lives. Who knows.. maybe more happened. I do know, for me, for connor, it's better this way- you've told me as such yourself ^_^ .. You can't really lump all peolpe who are going through a divorce into one category (obviously you know this).. I do agree, that it is sad that divorce rates are SO high.. but you also have to look at other things too.. too many people get married for the wrong reasons, too many people rush into marriage etc etc.. Those situations on top of situations like mine, sometimes there is really just no fixing it.I think it's wonderful that some people can work out their marriages-- but those situations, are different.. the two people love each other deep inside and are willing. A hate filled marriage is not good for any child.. and no amount of therapy will MAKE you love someone or MAKE you happy in a situation (or make the abuse go away, or on and on and on) That is all on the individual person. That base.. that love has to already be there..
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