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Originally Posted by lizzyfizzy
i love you jenny.
just a reminder: i am a girl who got married to a boy she hardly knew at 17. pregnant at 16. if i can survive this marriage i believe that a hell of a lot of people who get divorced can save theirs. like i said, i do understand there are different circumstances but more often than not divorce is not necessary. i will be an advocate for happy families. we can put it that way. in the end if you believe divorce made your family happier, my hat's off to you.
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I do agree with you too Lizzy. I agreed with Megan as well, but I do see your over-all point (which I don't think is that divorce is unacceptable under ALL circumstances because you said there are some situations that merit it). And I totally agree that too many people divorce too easily. I mean, look at the divorce rate. 50 years ago it was super low. People stuck it out. Now it's almost as if people get married for the fun of it, going into it with the attitude, "We can always divorce if we get bored". And thats a sad thing to see.
For me, I am against divorce too. I'm not against seperation if the situation needs it (emotional, physical, mental abuses etc), and would only divorce if my husband were to cheat on me. I would definitely
give it my all to save my marraige if it were at all possible!!