Yeah, I think most need it spelled out. But I'm also of the "catch them being good" camp. Ok, I know that is supposed to be for kids, but I'm pretty convinced it works with men too. What I mean is that when he does think about you and get you the drink, hangs the blinds, etc. That is when you praise. This is instead of nagging which I'm convinced they either just tune out or it peeves them so they delay doing anything.
*but I understand your hurt feelings. I'm thirsty & you send him in with extra money seems obvious.
Last edited by scrap2day; 03-03-2010 at 04:34 PM.
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