My sister has that same dress, but the option with sleeves! It's very pretty, and you'll definitely get to wear it again. Good compromise.
My sister just got married, and all she asked was that we wear red. I love when brides do that, since everyone can pick out a dress and shade that is flattering to them, and the monochromatic scheme looks great in photos. I didn't even have "bridesmaids" at my wedding since I didn't want to deal with it and it just feels weird asking someone to spend $100s on a dress for ME. I say to heck with tradition and do what makes you happy!
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