I think as long as u don't ignore it, your doing the right thing. When I had mine, so many of my friends/family didn't know what to say so they just didn't say anything. That was awful. I just wanted someone to cry with me, not for everyone to just sweep it under the rug cos it was easier for them. Also probably good to remember she's still going to be hurting for a long time. I couldn't get over mine til I got past my due date.
I think a little gift or note since u can't be with her is perfect.
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Lani
- Wifey to Jira, Mama to Thomas and Felicity, Obsessed fan to Bon Jovi -
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