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Originally Posted by lauren grier
I know I'm not everyone, but.. when I had my m/c (I was 11 wks along).. I didn't want to see or talk to anyone. at all. I was in pain, I was sick, all I wanted to do was crawl in a hole and not come out till my heart felt better.. I think it's probably for the best that you CAN'T go out there this weekend.. just to give her a little space and grieving time etc...
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This. When my friend had a miscarriage, she was really sad, and we talked about it (my Grandma died the same day, so that's why we somehow found ourselves talking about it), but she needed her time and privacy to get to terms with it. The more people talk to the woman about it, the more SHE has to think about it, and she just have to somehow swallow it on her own...
Of course, she needs to know people care, but she also needs to be on her own, I think.