I had 3 in a row, and I didn't want to talk to anyone about it. I wasn't super far along with mine, 7 weeks, 6 weeks, and 5 weeks. But I honestly don't think much about my miscarriages. To me they were too early to be children, I know a lot of people feel like they have a connection, and maybe if it had been later for me or if I had to have a D&C I might feel different, but honestly I don't want a reminder of something that painful.
I'm reminded of them everytime I look at Cooper and know how hard it was for us to get him.
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