I agree that just letting her know you are there when she is ready is great. When I had mine, that's exactly what my BFF did for me. She was there when I needed her and she left me alone when I needed that too. For me, it was too difficult to have anything with the due date or anything else on it because it was a reminder to me off my loss.
But, everyone is different and if you think your BFF would appreciate something like that, then I would certainly do that. I bought my BFF a necklace with four little children on it (she had two living and two angel babies). The boys clothes were circles and the girls clothes were triangles. In the center were the birthstones. I bought one for the two babies that my BFF had lost - so she had a total of four on it and she loved it. The two babies that she lost had little wings on them. It touched her to think that I would remember her two angel babies.
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