My dad is a cop, so he has just given me advice, too.
La, I realize that I may have to deal with visitation, etc, but in his last text to me, he said "I don't even believe he's mine," (Zach is 100% his, because I haven't been active with ANYONE else anywhere CLOSE to that time, but... whatever). Anyway, he has so far made it clear he doesn't even want to know when Zach arrives, let alone see him... so I don't know whether or not there will be visitation. And for him to get visitation in Kansas, it puts him in a position where he is accepting Zach is his, and therefore accepting the possibility that he may have to pay child support. He isn't too fond of paying child support on another kid, so I don't see him even trying to see Zach... but, that's just my thought on it.
Thanks for the support and advice, ladies. It helps.
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