Most men do this kind of crap. Its a power struggle. Believe me, my ex likes to pull that crap, too. I know he would never get custody, nor would he want custody, its just a way of hurting us. Be careful getting too stressed out, I had pre-term labor also, its scary, you have to keep yourself as stress free as possible. Stop talking to him, period. Once Zach is born, you can let him know and let him decide if he wants to be a part of his life.
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