Joel and I both do everything. We don't have a set system, but it usually gets done by one of us. Some weeks I don't feel like doing squat. And he picks up the slack. Other weeks it's flip flopped. Some weeks neither of us feel like doing anything and it gets messy but we get it back under control the next week. We both have the attitude as we both work stressful jobs so it's okay if our house isn't in perfect condition all the time. Thank goodness he feels the same way! LOL
ETA: In the summer I do most everything since I'm off and he's not. I feel bad making him do stuff when I'm home all day having fun.
I keep trying to tell him that if he'd just let me stay home & not work, he'd NEVER have to do housework! LOL