tons and tons of prayers and good thought for you!! I'll keep you in my thought and prayers that you can decide what is best for your family!!
I'm sure you are getting lots of different opinions and I'll throw my into the ring, I would not go and I would not take my children to a place with such turmoil. I'll be honest...I don't know a lot of what is going on over in the middle east and that would scare me too. I'm sure you all would be well protected but I think you all would also have limited mobility.....meaning you probably could travel "out" to far and I think that would wear on me too. I think I'd have to decided if I wanted to risk my children not only losing a father but also losing a mother or a sibling. I know it's hard to think of the worst...but as an adult and a parent that's part of my job. Not to say if we stayed behind there was no chance of anything happening to one of us...but I just think being put into a military situation would have to increase the chance.
But I'm a huge paranoid worrywart...so I'm not one to take advice from

But you all will still get some extra prayers from me that you can come to a solution that is right for everyone and give you some peace!!!