Kara,
I have a close friend who has a son with DS and she recommended that I point you to this blog. I am linking you directly to the birth story from 2010. Both my friend and I read the ongoing blog daily.
I'd be happy to put you in touch with my friend if you'd like to talk to someone who has been through this.
http://www.kellehampton.com/2010/01/...rth-story.html
My thoughts will continue to be with you and your peanut.
Alisa