[rachaelsscraps]

I don't make the child give up the toy if they had it first, even if it belongs to the kid asking for it. If they fight about it, I take it away..

This kinda thing always ticks me off-
My sister and I both have sons around the same age...and this happens all the time---> My son is playing with my nephew's toy and nephew asks if he can have it. My son says no because he had it first, so nephew (who whines a lot) starts to cry. My sister asks my son to give it to him (which I don't agree with)... then when it's turned around and my nephew is playing with my son's toy and my son asks for it, my sister says, "he had it first" to my son. URG!!! I hate that kinda crap. But I don't want to start a fight with her over it. So what then? I just hate the double standards.