I have the frizzy, wavey hair too. I used to have straight as a string hair and loved it, I miss it and want it back. The only thing I find for myself that makes it not frizzy and keeps it straight. Is my flat iron. Though using styling equipment just makes your hair more dry and brittle...So I don't know if that is something you want to do either. It's the only way I can stand my own hair though. I am looking forward to seeing what you choose Stephanie!