So, I divided my pics based on "event", i.e. meeting Merida, Meeting Cinderella, and it seems to have helped my brain process this a little bit. Because DH and I were split up so much of the time (him with our son, me with the girls), between us we did a LOT of different things.
Once I did that, I found it easier to cope. I am going to need two pagers for most stuff, because I have amazing pics, and I want to use as many as I can! I just got my first two pages done, and I figure once I'm done the pages, I'll decide what order I want them to go in.
Thank you all for your help with this!