I don't think you are being unreasonable. I get on my DH all the time about last minute plans. Like getting a call as I'm coming up saying we are babysitting for his brother in like 15 minutes and my house is a wreck. I just think that some people aren't program with the capacity to understand that they are imposing and incovenient.
i was once really rude and basically ignored my sister in law when she come over to our house right at bath/bedtime with my girls. My parents were here and she call on her way over to say that she wanted to see our house because she had never seen it! Believe I had words with DH about it.
Sounds like Jordan is non-confrontational. You may have address directly with both him and BIL if it becomes a regular problem.
I am so sorry. Patience is sometimes such a difficult lesson to learn.
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