[Jengerbread88]

I can't offer you any advice, but if you need to talk, please never hesitate to message me. My divorce was just recently finalized. My husband was in the Marine Corps, and he was abusive before he left for Afghanistan, but I went through a lot of the same things with the threats of violence and the verbal abuse. I'm here to talk if you ever need an ear.

I'm praying for you, and for your children. You don't have to go through this alone- there is so much support out there for you. Good for you for looking into finding a divorce lawyer. I was scared coming out of my marriage because I'm disabled, and my income is so small. I don't have children, but I was pregnant at the time (miscarried) so I understand what an emotional rollercoaster it can be. Good luck, and so many prayers headed your way.