I'm impressed with all of you who have a plan and have already begun shopping! Our boys are 19-23 and it is really hard. The things they want are too expensive so we usually end up giving them money toward what they really want. I always get them a couple things that are not on their list, but there's little shopping for Christmas these days.
Our oldest just told us he might not come home for Christmas this year.
He does not have a lot of vacation with his new job and is saving it for a couple of trips later this year. I know it happens as they get older but it's hard....