TOTALLY a planner! My sister calls me a planny plannerson!
I'm not very good with 'go with the flow' and like things organized, HOWEVER, I can relax more & more as I've gotten older & realized some things are just not in my control. For example- halloween- my daughter wanted to get ready at her best friends house (the only friend she's been able to 'see' during pandemic) so I said sure but I wanted pics of the kids together when they were done trick or treating (read: stealing grab bags off neighbors porches!) Of course they were not done at the same time & by the time she was home, my son was already out of his costume. It was tough to 'let it go' but they are getting to the ages that I have less control over those types of things... growing pains!