I am mostly a planner. But sometimes I get in too deep and feel overwhelmed. Then, I give up on the plan and just see what happens
I like to have plans in place that I can use over-and-over to minimize stress & maximize laziness. I have a chore/routine plan that I don't always finish, but if I do even just some of it, I feel like I'm better than I would have been without the plan. I also have a meal plan/rotation so I don't have to think every week about the grocery list or meal prep.