Oh man!!! I remember getting Chicken Pox as a kid. I had them in my MOUTH. Ugggh. You know, I have friends (who don't vaccinate) who would
love their kids to get chicken pox the natural way (for the exact reasons you're saying... the vaccine doesn't always create a strong immunity). There are moms who host play dates with contagious kids so their kids can get it. :/
Aw. I hope she is OK.
The oatmeal baths feel wonderful... I buy the Aveeno brand.