I agree with whomever said, name your baby what you want to name them. Life is way to short to squabble over a name (not that you all were but I've know many that have!!!). I had 2 brothers that had the same middle name - it wasn't even a family name my mom just LOVED the name!! Hahaha!! I was name (first middle and last name) after my dad's aunt, although she did get married so we eventually did have different last names. My youngest and one of my nephews both have the middle name Jeffery after one of my brother that was killed. My sister in law (hubby's sister) gave all 4 of her boys names of her husband and father. I think it's really common for shared names...I mean there is a reason most do that...they know the name will sound good with first/middle/last names!!!