Perhaps something to discuss with his counselor, is there something you can give him control over? Some decision or responsibility on a regular basis? Right now, he probably feels like he has no control over anything which can lead to him lashing out. You might also consider a few counseling sessions for yourself/husband to get some advise on how to cope with your son's attitude. My oldest had some anger/behavior issues when he was younger not long after my divorce. He went to counseling for several months. In hindsight, I wished I had gone too so I could have reacted better. His anger would erupt and then he'd go back to normal and not even remember that he'd had a meltdown hours later. I would be upset for days. We have a good relationship now, thankfully. Hopefully he'll come around soon. Stay strong!
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