[gypsystar]

I'm so sorry, Leah! It's certainly not an easy road to go down. Whether you try to work things out or not. My first husband couldn't keep it in his pants to save his life. We went to marriage counseling on and off. Eventually neither of us could handle it any more. I couldn't trust him and rightfully so. He was too self absorbed and driven to cheat to actually care about me or our children. So we decided to end it. I remember feeling a lot of hurt but also a lot of relief that I didn't have to sit and wonder where he was or who he was with anymore.